Creating more resilient
& peaceful families through change-oriented couples therapy.
In-person in PA and via telehealth for residents of MA.
If you’re here, you’ve probably already tried many things to make your relationship work.
Perhaps despite your best efforts, you find yourself…
Not being able to communicate effectively with your partner
Feeling like you have grown apart or are living separate lives
Not feeling like a priority to your partner
Wishing you could go back in time
Feeling lonely, sad, angry, anxious, guilty or ashamed
Worrying that your relationship is too “far gone”
I want you to know there is hope.
With the right approach and guidance, you can learn to be an agent of change in your relationship – to co-shape better interactions with your partner, to restore trust and intimacy with one another.
How I Help
Over the years, I have worked with countless couples using a clinically-proven approach called EFT.
It helps couples to break out of negative communication patterns as well as:
Manage and express difficult emotions in relationship-promoting ways
Learn how to rely on one another for support and healthy dependency
Talk about challenges without resorting to conflict or distancing
And to be able to repair when the inevitable rupture does happen
Build a deep, lasting, more trustworthy connection
When it comes to love relationships, the key to long-lasting connection is emotional intelligence.
This means understanding how our emotions (particularly unpleasant ones) drive us to stay open to our partners or self-protect when we feel insecure.
What is EFT?
Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) for couples is a clinically proven approach to help you grow your emotional intelligence and reconstruct your intimate bond through more effective emotional relating and responsiveness.
If you're like most couples, conflict can escalate so fast that it’s hard to know what the tension is about–or how to stop it.
Using EFT, we will slow down your interactions and map out the predictable pattern of your negative communication, and learn to conquer that cycle of disconnection together rather than blame each other. We will work to understand the emotions and deeper relationship needs that drive this pattern and shape new ways of interacting that bring your partner closer to you.
EFT can help you learn to:
Understand each person’s role in your relationship difficulties
Work together and be on each other’s side
Recognize the influence of past romantic/family attachments in your relationship style
Identify and manage overwhelming emotions
Create space in your conversations for vulnerability
Mend cracks in your foundation and repair deeper hurts
Connect with each other in more authentic, lasting ways
Let’s Get Started
Step 01
REQUEST APPOINTMENT
Please complete my contact form to request an initial appointment for you and your partner.
Provide a general sense of what you are seeking and why, as well as your logistical needs. I typically respond to these requests within 1-2 business days. Once we have scheduled the consultation, you’ll get a secure link to my client portal to complete all needed forms before our first session.
Step 02
INITIAL COUPLES SESSION
At our first meeting, the three of us will discuss your perceptions of the relationship challenges, strengths, communication patterns, key relationship events, and goals.
If you would like to continue, we will schedule an individual session for each person.
Step 03
INDIVIDUAL SESSIONS
In the second and third sessions, I will meet with you individually to gather more information about your personal relationships and the experiences that have shaped you in your closest bonds – how you relate to others around your feelings and deepest needs. We will begin to understand your attachment styles and how those are shaped in your past and present relationships.
Step 04
FEEDBACK & GOAL PLANNING COUPLE’S SESSION
In this fourth session, I will meet with you as a couple to provide feedback on your unique communication cycle and my recommendations for treatment based on your goals and my clinical assessment.
GOOD FAITH ESTIMATE
You are entitled to a Good Faith Estimate for the cost of your treatment.
To learn more click here.
Frequently Asked Questions
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I primarily practice Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy (EFCT), an empirically based approach designed to help couples develop a shared emotional language in which deeper emotions are accessed, regulated, and effectively expressed to one another. A substantial body of research supports the effectiveness of EFCT across many types of couples and the stability of positive change in relationships.
In addition, I draw upon my training as a family systems clinician and a trauma-informed therapist when needed, as well as apply my cognitive behavioral background to reinforce positive communication strategies.
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EFT is considered a short-term therapy that typically takes between 12 to 20 sessions to move a couple through the three-stage process (stages flow from de-escalation of conflict to restructuring of the emotional bond to consolidating new patterns of intimate connection.)
However, the length of treatment is a collaborative process and is determined by many factors (e.g., the chronicity and level of distress, co-occurring conditions, past traumatic experiences, and history of any treatment.) Couples often need longer than 20 sessions to achieve their goals, and we will discuss this and consider your specific treatment needs.
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After the initial four sessions of assessment, I customize a treatment plan with each couple specific to their needs and goals. At the beginning of treatment, I recommend meeting weekly with couples so they can build momentum and benefit from regular continuity of the work. Once couples are closer to achieving their goals, we will discuss reducing the frequency of sessions as appropriate. I typically meet with couples weekly for 60-minute sessions; however, some couples opt to do longer sessions of 75 - 90 minutes to cover more ground.
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I do not work directly with insurance companies, but many plans allow for you to select an out-of-network provider and will provide some reimbursement. While you will be responsible for payment weekly or monthly, I will actively work with you to help you obtain the maximum out-of-network benefits from your insurance. Policies vary significantly, and I recommend checking with your insurance company to determine the extent of your out-of-network mental health (or "behavioral health") benefits.
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My fees are as follows (some prices are location dependent):
• 75-minute couples sessions: $350 USD.
• 60-minute couples sessions: $275-300.00 USD.
• 50-minute individual sessions: $250-275.00 USD.
Payment is expected at the time of service. I accept checks, debit/credit, and FHSA cards, as well as a secure payment portal for clients meeting with me online.
Reduced fee services may be available to accommodate clients with extenuating financial limitations.
I readjust my fees annually to reflect cost of living increases.
You are entitled to a Good Faith Estimate. Read more about that here.
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Depending on the situation, we may meet online or in person at my office in Lower Merion, PA. Telehealth visits will be conducted over Zoom using a secure link that I will set up for you before our meetings. I recommend that couples meet in a private and comfortable place for their Zoom calls to minimize distractions.
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This often depends on the moment! Even if an immediate opening is not available, I usually have anticipated availability within 1-2 months. I will let you know this information in our initial contact.
Have other questions?
Are you ready?
Get in touch today to book your initial consultation.